Melanoma Monday

Since I was recently diagnosed with skin cancer I am very appreciative of  the new initiative – Melanoma Monday. Today, Monday May 7, is Melanoma Monday. Doing a little detective work can go a long way in finding skin cancer, the most common form of cancer diagnosed in the United States. However, a new survey found that many people do not know how to spot skin cancer and are unaware of their risk of developing the disease.

In an effort to increase the public’s understanding of skin cancer and motivate people to change their behavior to prevent and detect skin cancer, the American Academy of Dermatology (Academy) today launched the new SPOT Skin Cancer™ public awareness initiative. The campaign’s simple tagline – “Prevent. Detect. Live.” – focuses on the positive actions people can take to protect themselves from skin cancer, including seeing a dermatologist when appropriate.

“Unlike other types of cancer that can’t be seen by the naked eye, skin cancer shows obvious signs on the surface of the skin that can be easily detected by properly examining it,” said board-certified dermatologist Daniel M. Siegel, MD, FAAD, president, American Academy of Dermatology. “The goal of SPOT Skin Cancer™ is to help save lives by educating the public on how to protect themselves from the sun and how to examine their skin for suspicious spots.”

SURVEY STATISTICS:
The need for a comprehensive skin cancer resource is evident based on the public’s general lack of understanding of detecting and preventing skin cancer. In fact, the Academy conducted an online survey of adults nationwide which showed:

  • Almost three-quarters of respondents (74 percent) did not know that skin cancer is the most common form of cancer in the U.S.
  • Only half (53 percent) of respondents knew how to examine their skin for signs of skin cancer.
  • Thirty percent of respondents were either unsure or did not know that skin cancer can be easily treated when caught early.

“When it comes to skin cancer, our survey demonstrates that knowledge is power,” said Dr. Siegel. “For example, respondents who know how to examine their skin for signs of skin cancer were more than twice as likely to have shown suspicious moles or spots to a medical professional as those who did not know how to spot the warning signs of skin cancer on their skin. In some instances, this knowledge can mean the difference between life and death, which is why it is so important to see a dermatologist if you notice a spot on your skin that is changing, itching or bleeding.”

SKIN CANCER FACTS:

  • More than 3.5 million skin cancer cases affecting 2 million people are diagnosed annually.
  • Current estimates are that one in five Americans will be diagnosed with skin cancer in their lifetime.
  • The five-year survival rate for people whose melanoma (the deadliest form of skin cancer) is detected and treated before it spreads to the lymph nodes is 98 percent.

So, long and short of it people – DO your homework, go to your dermatologist annually and never second guess a mole.  I am forever thankful for my dermatologist catching what could have quickly been, a fatal mole.

Smoke and Mirrors

sassy irish lassieMolly sat next to him, her face bent down, covered by a shroud of uncertainty. These events always brought out the best in him, making it easy to see why she fell in love with him so many years ago. He always put on quite the show at public affairs. He would laugh and hold her close, determined to maintain the appearance of the ‘perfect couple’. Of course, everyone she met always took time to point out how ‘amazing and generous‘ her husband was, that she was so lucky to have such a great catch. If they only knew….

For Molly, these functions held even greater meaning. These outings were a chance to escape her life and get a glimpse of the outside world. They were a diversion, a momentary liberation from the confines of their penthouse. It was a time for her to shine, to engage, to be noticed. To not just be something that was dull and useless, something that harbored no true joy.

But all this freedom came a price. Molly knew she had to be on her toes, mindful of every word, thought and even glance. For if anything was perceived, even in the slightest, as unacceptable – she would have to endure the wrath. She alone would be made to suffer for her inadequacies. He was a man of his word and she had learned long ago to never question or doubt him.

The mirage of perfection was difficult to sustain. While Molly flourished and thrived in the company of others, the stress of the production was often too much to bear. She had given up hope years ago that he would ever change, that the loving and charming man in public, would ever be the man she went home with.  That the affection and kindness he showered her with in the presence of others would ever be heartfelt  and real. She had given up on being loved.

It’s All About Me

This weekend I had the amazing opportunity to check off another thing from my bucket list. Curious what I crossed off this time? Well, this lassie can officially check of #54 from her list. Yeah!

This weekend I had the amazing opportunity to visit New York for my very own personal make over and photo shoot. And let me just say, it was as awesome as it sounds.  The wonderful people of PaloVia treated us like super stars. We had a scrumptious dinner at The House and had the pleasure of sitting next to Tim Tebow.  Did I mention he bought us drinks. Oh, he did and my boys are beyond jealous! Foxy bingo? Yep, it was in New York too.

I also had the opportunity to meet some amazing women from around the country. It was great to extend my circle of ‘In Real Life’ blogging friends and watch everyone transform from beautiful to drop dead gorgeous! I will add that it didn’t take much work for these women – they were beautiful on the inside and out!

Then it was a day of beautifying, hair and make-up. Here I am mid-process:

Curious what the end product looked like? Well, you are just going to have to tune in to see the final result.  They were quite stunning if I do say so myself. As soon as I have those fabulous pictures in my hand you will be the first to see. Well, actually the second – after me of course!

Next stop on my Bucket List Trail? Crossing out #9 in T-minus 17 days. Who wants to catch a wave with me??

Photo A Day – Part Duex

I have survived another nine days in the Photo A Day April challenge. Quite happy with myself except for one day that required a sunset and Mother Nature was in a foul mood. Almost two-thirds of the way done with this month. Maybe I just may complete a photo 365. Ahhh, who am I kidding. I am only in week three!

Photo A Day April: Day 10-18
Want to join in this month or for the month of May? Find the photo lists HERE.

A Wrinkle In Time

Sigh…. wrinkles. We all have them. Ok, maybe not all of us, but this lassie does! I like to consider them laugh lines, love lines, heck even happy lines. But in all truth – I wish they would go away. I am the first to admit that I love to soften the look of my crows feet and forehead lines when editing pictures. That simple act of camouflage makes me looks years younger. I have jars of various creams, lotions and gels that promise to erase the signs of aging. While some may work a little or for a short time, I have not had any luck finding my youthful eyes of the past.

 

Continue HERE…….

Biting the Dust Irish Style

This past Saturday I put another line through one of the items on my Bucket List. Number 4 to be exact. Yes, this weekend I was in a parade. Of course, if this lassie is going to be in a parade, it had better be a St. Patrick’s Day parade!

I could not have asked for a more beautiful day to complete one of my Bucket List items.  The skies were blue and the weather was amazing. Ok, it was actually really hot. March in Chicago – who knew?! But I did get to ride atop a float and throw candy to the spectators which was shockingly really fun.

So now that I have officially checked that item off my list I am looking forward to my next adventure. Did I mention that adventure is less than two months away?? Squeee! Can. Not. Wait. Sun + surf + sand = Bucket List Item #9!

Apptastic Tuesday

On the look out for the latest and greatest apps? My boys and I are always checking out and downloading new apps. What can I say – I love them!  Sadly, I think they love them even  more! But trying to keep up with all the newest apps can be difficult and quite frankly, over whelming.  That is where my beloved appSmitten comes into play.

What is appSmitten? AppSmitten hand-selects the best apps and sends recommendations directly to your inbox. Did you know that there are over 1 million apps out there?? Yikes! That is a lot of searching. AppSmitten focuses on finding the apps that are worth downloading – the ones that will keep you organized, entertained and productive and give you more time to enjoy all the apps you have downloaded.

I love the fact that appSmitten covers the best apps for iPhone, iPad and Android, especially since we have ALL THREE in our house. My new favorite app is Alfred, my very own personal concierge.  The first thing Alfred asks you is, “What would you like to do near here?” Your options? Drinks, coffee or tea, brunch, nightlife…you get the idea. Based on your preferences Alfred gives suggestions that are tailored to your taste AND location. You can test your luck and choose a quick pick or ask Alfred to find something specific for you (i.e. kid-friendly and close to the gym). Alfred is continually studying what you like and don’t like so he can be the man you want him to be. Could it get any better?? I think he just may give Siri a run for her money! Sorry Hubby.

* While I do love me some appSmitten, I am participating in their affiliate program.

A boy and his bubbles

In an attempt to perfect my bubble photo taking capabilities, I gave Monkey a bottle of bubbles. Please disregard his nasty and dirty boyish self. Sigh…. Life with boys is never boring!
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bubble boy

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this one caught his eye

Lost

Traveling down the dark and unfamiliar road. The moon provides intermittent patches of light between the ominous billowing clouds. My head is spinning and my feet can’t find the ground. Dredging memories from my youth, trying to feverishly re-knit the past. Trying to find meaning amidst the clouds of uncertainty.

Your mind knows where to exit yet it refuses to go – not ready. Wishing there was a different route, a different choice. But alas, it is not your choice, not your decision to make. The decision rest in His hands. Even though you argue and disagree, it is His will.

So I sit, knowing that someday the tables will spin and it will be me at the head of the table. I will have to sift through the fog that slowly rolls in, filling all my void with uncertainty. I will be left, searching for the ever true light…..And I know, you will be there, right next to me.

One Word 365

Aaah, 2012. Here you are. I could be cliche and say, “Wow! You sure snuck up on me. Where did the past year go?” But in all honesty, I know where this year went. I lived, cried, laughed and grew through it. I think, for the most part, I came out of it a better and stronger person.

Last year I participated in Big Picture’s ‘One Little Word‘ class. My word for the year was ‘Grace’. I loved spending the year embracing, reflecting, exploring and living with grace. In fact, I loved my word so much I tattooed it on my wrist!But alas, 2011 is over and I must find and embrace a new word and a new challenge: One Word 365. A word that will challenge me to change and grow in all aspects of my life. A word that will resonate with me. A word that will inspire. My word you wonder? My word is:

I will say, I think it is kind of funny how words jump out at you. When I signed up last year I knew my word immediately. I knew what I needed to work on. I knew what I needed. Flash forward another year and I am smacked in the face again. Once again, I know what I need to work on, I know what I need in my life – I need to believe.

I need to believe in myself. I need to believe that love conquers all. I need to believe that there are good people in the world. I need to believe in happiness. I need to believe I can do anything I put my heart into. I need to believe I can write. I need to believe in my children. I need to believe that someday, everything will make sense. I need to believe that it is okay to walk away from the laundry, computer,etc. and hang with my family. I need to believe that sometimes ‘good enough’ is enough. I need to believe that I can make mistakes. I need to believe in forgiveness. I need to believe in grace.

What would you pick as One Word for this year?